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France – a different approach to Education – Part 1

by Stephanie Godwin
The French education system couldn’t be more different to that present in the UK at the moment. This does not pose much of a problem to young families who first attend school this side of the channel but for older kids (and therefore their parents) and especially teenagers, the differences can prove insurmountable and may often lead to the students in question wanting to return to the UK.

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You just can’t beat a Retreat!

by Wendy Wise - Facilitutors
This is the traditionally the time of year when you take stock of your life,  looking back at what has gone before and  forward to what is to come.  Maybe things didn’t turn out quite the way you had planned…Maybe you didn’t have a plan at all!  We all get swept along by the tide of events and the desire to please others and often wish we could just take the time to really think and put our lives back on track.  So, have you ever thought of going on a retreat to find a place and time to think?  Well, I’ve been talking to Danuta Karpinska of the Radha Caudet Yoga Retreat Centre about her work, the centre and the people who go there.  

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Donkey Days!

by Equine Rescue France
Living in France, many of us dream of looking after donkeys but just don’t know where to start. We asked long time donkey lover and ERF supporter Diane Lindsay to share her thoughts on the important things to consider….

« Lots of people talk to animals, but not very many listen, though. That’s the problem. » Benjamin Hoff

ERF's Manon

Manon

With that endearing face, those dark penetrating eyes, that distinctive bray, and lively intelligence, the donkey has a way of capturing your heart.  By nature, donkeys are curious, patient, sensitive, dependable, and kind, making them ideal around children and good with people with disabilities. The calming effects of donkeys on nervous livestock are well documented.

They learn quickly and do not forget what they have learned. Their undeserved characterization as  « stubborn » or « stupid » is a human misunderstanding of their strong instinct of self -preservation, which is much stronger than that of a horse.  Donkeys are careful and contemplative and not prone to panic or carelessness; they reflect and consider a situation before acting. If they know they can trust and depend upon you, they will want to please and accommodate you.

Because of their stoic nature and capacity for endurance, donkeys have often suffered abuse and neglect at the hands of humankind.  But, with time, patience, and love, donkeys can show a remarkable facility to forgive the past and learn to trust again.  And all donkeys deserve to be safe, well cared for, and appreciated for who they are. Life with donkey companions can bring loads of love, challenges, fun, and endless delight.

Acquiring a Donkey

Before acquiring a donkey companion, thought should be given to the time, effort, and expense involved in caring for these marvellous creatures. Donkeys can have a life span of over 40 years; therefore, caring for them represents a long-term commitment. For your happiness and wellbeing, and that of your donkey companions, here are some factors to consider:

  • Why would you like to be a donkey guardian?

The purpose of having a donkey may simply be to have a wonderful and loving companion animal and to give a deserving animal a second chance at a safe and happy life. With proper equipment and training, you may also enjoy activities with your donkeys such as driving, walking, children’s riding, showing, and doing light draught work on a small holding. Reflecting upon why you desire to have donkeys helps you choose the right donkey- in terms of age, temperament, character, and size – to fit your needs and expectations.

  • Do you have the time and commitment needed to look after your donkeys?

A minimum of about two hours a day is needed for daily feeding and grooming, as well as mucking out of field and shelter.   Because donkeys are natural stoics, an illness or injury may be well advanced before they show obvious signs of discomfort.  Early recognition of problems such as illness and lameness is possible when you are familiar with your donkey’s normal behaviour and movement, appetite and thirst patterns, faeces/urine, eyes, nose and respiration, hooves, coat and skin.  Time spent observing your donkey’s health and behaviour each day is the key to this early recognition.

  • Do you have a minimum of one hectare (2.47 acres) of paddock/pasture land per two donkeys?

It is essential to have adequate and correctly managed pasture for grazing and exercise. Being familiar with good pasture management for donkeys helps

ERF's Wilbur & Piona
Wilbur & Piona

avoid problems such as obesity and laminitis (a painful hoof problem), the spread of worms, and the ingestion of toxic plants.

  • Is your pasture enclosed with safe secure fencing?

There are several types of recommended fencing for donkeys, including electric and post and rail.  Donkeys can be great escape artists, so care should be taken that all fencing is secure and does not pose a danger to your donkeys. An ideally managed pasture can be divided into two or three paddocks to control grazing. It is essential that fencing should be arranged to allow donkeys free access to shelter and fresh water at all times.

  • Do you have adequate shelter?

Donkeys require access to a barn or other adequate shelter to allow them to avoid the heat and flies of summer, as well as the inclement weather in winter. Donkeys do not produce as much natural protective grease on their skin as horses do: their coats are not waterproof! Adequate shelter protects them from uncomfortable exposure to rain, wind, and snow that can lead to conditions such as rain scald and mud fever.

The shelter (at least 9 sq. meters for a pair) should have at least three and a half sides and be well drained with adequate ventilation and good air circulation. It should be protected from prevailing winds, away from areas prone to fly nuisance, and have a dry non-slip floor.  Clean bedding straw or wood shavings on the floor of the shelter allow a warm dry place to lie down. Regular cleaning prevents the build up of bacteria in the manure, which can attack the donkey’s hooves causing foot problems.

  • Do you have a means of providing a fresh clean water supply and electricity to the pasture/paddock?

Donkeys can be fussy about what they drink. They have been known to refuse to drink rather than drink dirty water.  They should always have access to a clean fresh water supply in well-scrubbed containers. In cold weather, care should be taken to see that the water supply is not frozen. Most donkeys will not break the ice with their hooves, as horses often will.

  • Do you have a supplier of good quality hay and straw and a dry and protected place in which to store it?

The grass hay and barley straw fed to your donkey should be examined to ensure that it is of good quality and should be stored in conditions that protect against mould, dust, moisture, and rodent infestation, etc.  Mouldy, dusty, or spoiled hay or straw must never be fed to a donkey.

  • Will your donkey have a companion?

Donkeys require companionship and naturally form strong bonds with each other.  They should never be kept alone, and should preferably be kept with another donkey. Where this is not possible, a horse or pony may make a suitable companion. If your donkey is to live with horse(s), it is important to be aware of their differences in terms of: nutrition and feeding, behaviour and temperament, shelter, tack, training, and hoof trimming.

  • Have you located a qualified equine vet for routine treatments?

ERF Belle

Belle - guardian needed

A local equine vet should be available to call when you have concerns over you donkey’s health and well-being.

  • Your donkey will also require annual tetanus and influenza vaccinations. Consult your equine vet about other vaccinations that may be required in your area.  During his annual visit, the vet can also check the overall health of your donkeys.
  • The number one worldwide killer of donkeys is parasites.  Donkeys will usually need to be wormed every three months, rotating worming products to ensure effectiveness against all types of parasites.  Many owners do the worming themselves, purchasing worming products for equines at local feed stores or veterinary clinics. Seek the advice of your equine veterinarian regarding worming schedules for your area.
  • Donkeys can develop sharp points on their teeth that can create sores in their mouths, making it painful and difficult to eat.  They need an annual dental check, and, if necessary, will need to have their teeth floated, or filed, by an equine dentist. An older donkey or one with teeth problems may need to be seen more often.
  • Have you located a farrier for routine hoof care?

Donkeys’ hooves differ from horses’ in both angle and form: they are more upright, smaller, tougher, and more elastic. You will need a farrier who is experienced trimming donkeys’ feet and is gentle with your donkey to visit every 6-10 weeks.

All too common foot problems and diseases in donkeys can be avoided or minimized though proper feeding, daily hoof care, and regular visits from the farrier.  The old saying, “no hoof, no horse”, applies to the donkey, too!

  • Are you well informed about the basics of donkey husbandry?

Your knowledge of the basics of donkey care and welfare is essential to the health and well being of your donkey: nutrition and feeding requirements, daily care and grooming, behaviour and general handling, general health and hoof care. You can never know too much about your companion animal. (See the ERF website for a list of suggested reading materials).

Who is born a donkey will not die as a horse~Italian Proverb

  • A note for those familiar with caring for horses:

While many aspects of donkey and horse husbandry are similar, there are also many important differences. If your donkey is to live with horses, it is important to be aware of these differences as they pertain to: nutrition and feeding, behaviour and temperament, shelter, tack, training, and hoof trimming.

  • Can you afford the ongoing costs of caring for a donkey? These costs can be roughly estimated to be an average of 500 Euros per year.

There will also be initial costs for equipment, fencing, shelter, tack and grooming aids that will depend upon existing equipment and facilities available.

  • Do you have an adequate contingency fund to meet unexpected veterinary bills?

Even with the best care and attention, there will be times when you need to call out the vet. Given the long distances involved, the costs can quickly mount up and it is not unusual for a simple visit to cost in the region of 75 – 100€ without the cost of any medicines.

Once these basics are all taken care of,  you and your donkeys will have a wonderful future together!

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At Equine Rescue France, we often have donkeys that require new long-term guardians. We never sell our animals, all our equines are placed on loan under contract so that we can be sure they are safe and well looked after for the rest of their lives. If you are interested in finding out more, please contact us at admin@equinerescuefrance.org or through our website.

If you would like to support the work we do here in France, please consider making a donation - every centime goes towards helping equines.

Je suis a caretaker

Sally Stone - Les Bons VoisinsIn the late afternoon December sunshine I am walking my dog through a wooded hillside in central Brittany, and reflecting on the year gone by.

The eight thousand euro kitchen has, unbelievably, been fitted without a hitch in time for its absentee owner to arrive for Christmas.  On behalf of another client, I have explained to the under floor heating engineer that he cannot test his thirty thousand euro system (high tech, geo thermique) until the client has the money to change the electrics to cope with it.  I have emailed a request for sage and onion stuffing to another client who is arriving on Christmas Eve from the UK.

It’s almost time to pull up the drawbridge (of course lowering it for real emergencies!) and start to think about my own Christmas, and drink a toast to another successful year. Our network Les Bons Voisins which started here in Brittany, now cares for more than one thousand  homes in France from Nord Pas de Calais to Languedoc,  and I have watched over the growth of the network since I started it in 2002.

We look after people’s holiday homes – their “maison secondaire” – in their absence.  Most of our clients have bought them principally for their own enjoyment and only let them out on a very ad hoc basis.  It’s a fact that committed Francophiles that have bought holiday homes has led to the demise of much of the commercial gîte rental market in some areas of France.  We dread settling down at the end of the day and seeing one of those television programmes with their “no going back” theme that show people buying a couple of properties in France, confident that they can live full time in one of them funded from the income that the second one will generate – no longer the case in most areas of France.

It seems to us that everyone in England knows someone with a holiday home here, that they “borrow” for a fraction of the cost of a commercial let, without the angst of wondering what it will be like.  And, indeed, hence the niche market for our business – Les Bons Voisins (Good Neighbours) that I started with my husband in Central Brittany nearly a decade ago, which is franchised now in more than thirty other areas.  With an intense five day training course for our new franchisees, ongoing support and network connections, we provide a one-stop shop for our clients. They can rest assured that when they arrive to relax, their holiday home will be as they want it to be with no leaking roof or waist high weeds in the garden..

My own favourite client is a designer for a famous Paris fashion house who arrives every month to chill out and unwind.  I collect him from station or airport.  I make sure the table lamps are lit and the fridge is stocked – a real welcoming atmosphere for him as he unlocks the door.  We collect his guests when they arrive at the airport – I well remember discovering I was chauffeuring a world famous hairdresser on a really bad hair day – c’est la vie.

I sometimes wonder how we had the nerve to sell up in England and relocate in 2002. In retrospect we were absurdly confident that we could make a living in France.  We had already spotted what we felt was lacking in the area of our own much loved holiday home – top quality caretaking and property management.  We have managed to do what we have because no one said we couldn’t do it – self-belief has a lot to answer for.

So we came over, with prospective clients who were hopeful that a fellow countryman was going to be here full time, to cut their grass, wait in for the electricity board; sort out a new roof for them.  However they, and to an extent we, expected this life to be the stuff of dreams, involving little more than casually popping round to check properties, arranging a vase of welcoming flowers and making sure the garden stayed well kempt.  All this would be during long sunny days with an ever-open bottle of chilled wine, with the birds singing and no stress to speak of…

What a gap between expectation and reality.  For a start, Brittany is a green and beautiful region because of its heavy rainfall.  If you have six lawns to mow and a window of opportunity between showers of maybe three hours, that’s what we call stress!  You think people in Britain talk about the weather – it’s nothing on a French countryman.  Our Breton farmer friend has now gently explained that in Brittany you often get all four seasons in one day.  He thinks only a foreigner goes out even on the hottest day without a sweater for when the weather changes…

So what other problems?  Well, when we started up our business in our area we were very much an exception.  In those days, there WERE still owners of gîte complexes who did indeed make their living from letting maybe four properties out for eight or ten weeks a year, providing enough income for the whole year.  The only other “ex-pats” around were “early retired” couples taking advantage of the cheaper property in this part of the world to make up for their ravaged pension funds.  So, a couple who set up a business and worked as hard as you do (or should do!) at the beginning of any new  business venture, seven days a week no matter what, were an oddity who did not fit expectations.

But what are problems but opportunities to succeed? We were drawn to our local French community, a group of hard working artisans and farmers who understood our necessity to earn a living once we explained to them no, we had no gîtes and no, we were not yet retired.   So we became an object of great amusement and not inconsiderable fascination!  However once we had broken the ice and began to prove our sincere desire to fit in the community, and began asking for quotes for our clients requirements from their brother/uncle/cousin/neighbour the plumber/roofer/electrician/drainage expert, the word spread that here was a couple different from the “norm”.

What took us by surprise was the warmth of the local community… One day, we were trying to erect a fence in a particularly stony piece of ground in a small back street lane.  Our retired Parisian neighbour strolled past with his son-in-law – saw what was happening and told us to wait five minutes.  He gathered appropriate tools, an extension lead and help from other neighbours. This lead to a group of seventeen people surrounding us as we eventually succeeded, sweating profusely, to erect ramrod straight fence posts in the inhospitable terrain.  I took out a tray of “kir” – the local Breton aperitif, a splash of Cassis in white wine – and we toasted the “entente cordial”.  We left a sign on that fence, saying it was thanks to combined efforts – what a chuckle that raised.

It’s hard to explain the warm glow left as a result of experiences like that.  Little by little, we became absorbed into the local community.  A great icebreaker was our little Jack Russell terrier we imported when we came to live in France – what else could we call him, but Jacques?  We trained him in French commands before we got here – but did not realise that our French neighbour’s first name was also Jacques. When I went striding up the lane, shouting “Jacques – viens ici!”  It caused much merriment.  Eventually the dog became “le petit Jacques” and M. Gallene  “le grand Jacques” which seemed to be ok.   Incidentally, the whole town joined in our mourning when “le petit Jacques” was run over and killed one sunny bank holiday in the centre of town.   The local vet, responding to our frantic telephone call, refused to charge us for the callout.  A horrid time was made much more bearable by the warmth of peoples genuine concern.

So how can we give something back to the local community?  We always try to find French artisans to work for our clients, trying to change the perceived local opinion that the English always work with the other English.  That way the artisans get work because we liaise between our clients and them, the clients’ standing in the community is enhanced by their employment of local labour – and our own standing in the community is equally enhanced, even if it is for our entertainment value!

Some of our French friends do worry that the English only come here because the houses are cheaper and of course there is an element of truth in that. On the map Brittany seems near to the ports so incomers can sprint back to Marks and Spencer or to see their family when they feel the urge!  But – Brittany deserves to be loved for far more than :the relaxed pace of life, the beautiful unspoilt countryside, and the empty roads that are a joy to drive on and last but not least the truly wonderful friendship that can be achieved with the local people. Someone somewhere must eventually carry out a study on the effect of the influx of the British to France and particularly in the early 21st century.  One of our clients is an Oxford Don – we’ve already suggested it to him!

So am I living the dream then?  Well there’s a lot of hard work for it to be a dream – but I live in a lovely house, in a pretty market town of just twelve hundred people.  Being mortgage free and with the luxury of working for yourself, on a good day takes some beating.  On a bad day, when the responsibility of looking after people’s second most valuable asset in the world gets you down – the clients overlook your emails, and you are chasing them for decisions or payment and you are earning a fraction of what you earnt in the UK – yes these are the days when I long for my power suit, my company Mercedes and my seat on the Board of Directors.

Then, I walk my new dog (French, of course) in the early evening up the lane and across our neighbouring farmer’s land.  I meet him, and we discuss the “meteo” for tomorrow, and arrange to drop in together to our Parisians neighbours for aperitifs on New Year’s Eve  (quelle honneur!).  I see the sunset over the majestic woods as I return home, spot the smoke curling from our wood-burning stove into the unpolluted sky knowing there will be a glass of wine to greet me, when I get home…

I shall reflect on the day just gone, and plan the next…

Perhaps I am in that dream, after all…

Sally Stone
December 2010
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Dans la Merde! 2

by Stephanie & Jeremy Godwin Transmanche Accountancy Services

Following on from last month’s article here as promised are some possible outcomes facing someone who gets into debt in France.
A private individual who owns his own property or rents one and lives modestly runs little risk of becoming indebted. Nevertheless, avoiding putting in tax returns or turning a blind eye to the obligations of being a French resident may mean that fines (amendes) or interest (majorations) are applied when the authorities catch up with you. Moreover, if you have unearned income then you will find that there are social charges levied upon it if you are tax resident in France. Another common avoidance is solidarité cotisations which should be paid to the MSA. Ignoring utility bills, especially from state run firms such as EDF will mean you get cut off and then of course you have to pay to get reconnected.
 

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